Dating and texting
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Instead try this: act as if you’ve got a dozen other women texting you, and that you’re someone who is high status.
Principle #2 – Make her feel something – Women make decisions about who to give their attention to based on how to they feel in the moment.
If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.
She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.
The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
You're a cut-to-the-chase kind of girl — you don't really see the point in being coy.
But when you're always so straightforward, your texts can get a little boring. You might freak out when you press send, but it's worth it: When you set the tone for a flirtier conversation, your crush will return the favor!
It’s like some kind of secret language that we’re expect to already know how to speak. an unfair advantage over every other guy she’s talking to.